A man's nature is to provide, protect, and take care of his woman. When a man truly loves a woman he takes great pride in his ability to be her shield and this is the reason he will offer all his strength and resources to ensure her security. Deep inside most men this desire exists, but today's anti-male society seemingly scoffs at this idea as if it sets women back 60 years. This is tragic because now some men have bought into the independent woman philosophy. Cultural norms have long dictated that men should pay for dinner when dating a woman, but why should he when she boast of her financial prowess and independency? Men used to be expected to open doors for women and pull out a woman's chair at the diner table, but when he hears Neo sing "There is something oh so sexy about the kind of woman that don't even need my help. She say she got, she got it, no doubt there's something about her." Sounds good in the song, but I would argue that this attitude can cause power struggles in a relationship that would otherwise prosper. To the ladies I will say this, you are beautiful and talented in a multitude of areas and it is appreciated. We see you so you don't have to flaunt it. We hear you so you don't have to say it so loud. You don't have anything to prove. Just be YOU!
Brandon J.
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